Occasionally, someone will tell me they were worried I was judging them. I, on the other hand, was completely oblivious

Sometimes I feel like I need a big disclaimer above my head saying, “Even if we disagree, I still respect your perspective.” Or “I don’t expect you to look just like me.”

So here’s a partial disclaimer and a chance to read my mind. You may want to read the green characters’ words first: 

NOTE: I won’t say I never judge people. I am human after all. But chances are much more likely that I’m inwardly criticizing how you treat a newcomer or the prepositions you use discussing singleness (two of my biggest pet peeves) instead of your clothing or beverage choices.